Because you and all other unenlightened people have split personalities to various degrees of amount and intensity, we are all Dependent Vampires, stealers of energy. The only way out is through the advanced techniques of Meditation Energy Enhancement. To connect to a higher level of energy, which can never fail and to integrate these split off parts of your personalities back into the Central Soul Stem. Then we do not need the energy and attention of people around us.
We start to give energy. Everyone becomes happy in our presence! Then we can comfortably destroy these negative split off thoughtforms which exist with our and everyone's minds, in our lives. Only when we become enlightened do we become Independent. Until that time we can depend on people not to be able to fulfil their promises, without a lot of penalties. This is the Law of Moses.
We can depend on people to follow their childish split personalities. The problem with monogamy has always been boredom because as I explained, the traumatised childish split personality will use any childish excuse to cut off the flow of sexual energy. They are not logical. Because of this, the initial passion drops off pretty rapidly in a typical relationship, but not the lust of sexual desire. Eventually, the right (or wrong) set of circumstances come together and you have infidelity. It's not that people are bad, just they are split personalities.
To be a split personality is to be childish, to be emotional, and to have expertise with sexual energy. Its just that you, the main personality is not in charge of it. For men and women, being sexual means they sometimes think with what is between their legs instead of what is inside their head. But a split personality is single minded , ruthless and often as not, amoral. A split knows only desire, and when the hot sexual energy is active, you might as well be dealing with an addict. At such a moment all a split can think of is how to get the next fix.
At such times there are few split personalities alive who can resist the inviting smile on a pretty woman's face, or the parting of her legs. As you know, there are plenty of reasons to choose not to forgive and forget. But what if you have created a long beautiful life together and your partner is a wonderful parent to your children? What if you feel just as much to blame for the infidelity because you had pushed them away for too long, some independent, childish, emotionally dependant split off parts of your personality having stopped the flow of your unconscious sexual energy from base chakra to base chakra. From Penis to Ovary using the psychic sex connection. What if they had made an honest effort to work things out with you but you just kept pushing them away because of the lack of energy flow caused by one of your split personalities? Having stopped the flow of sexual energy from base chakra to base chakra. From Penis to Ovary using the Psychic Sex Connection.
What then? Just because you want to forgive them doesn't mean that you can forgive them. How do you forgive and forget? The bible may tell us to turn the other cheek, but how? How do you do it? There's a big difference between saying, "I forgive you" on a generic spiritual level and saying, "I forgive you" on a personal heart to heart level. The key to real forgiveness must involve trust but how can it when people are just following their emotions? And how can you trust a split personality? And this is the case with 99.99% of humanity. At some level you have to really believe in your heart of hearts that you can trust this person to never ever repeat such a painful choice again. Well, I believe that you must forgive the person anyway.
With childish split personalities you can say, "Forgive them Lord, They know not what they do" Jealousy and the ego necessity for a monogomous relationship will cause all the problems within us because we want the other person to love us and to be there only for us. We force people to be monogamous, to be chattel, or we throw them out If you don't really believe that they will be subservient to you, then your selfish ego isn't really going to forgive them and the underlying resentment will eat away at whatever is left of the foundation of your relationship. The most important barometer of how easy or hard it is to forgive is how they behave after the event.
Do they browbeat you with comments like, "Look I said I'm sorry. Get over it already." Or are they beating themselves up for having caused you this pain? Are they offering to jump through hoops to prove to you that they have learned a horrible lesson and will make damn sure it never happens again? The intensity of their apology and their willingness to allow you to feel the pain of it will have a direct impact on your ability to heal from the infidelity and on their ability to rebuild trust in your eyes. If they demand that you simply trust them on their word and they have done nothing to show you that they are taking full responsibility for the broken trust, then leave them.
It's not your fault that they broke the trust even if you were not emotionally available to them, the breach of trust was done on their part. You can't force yourself to trust someone again. Just like when our teenagers lie to us and have to earn back our trust, it's no different between adults whether the trust was broken in a marriage or a business relationship. It's their job to recreate that. They need to find their own way back. The fact is, Only when we become enlightened, when we have healed all the split off parts of our personalities do we become able to fulfil our promises.
Until then we must forgive, and expect infidelity. The brains are emotionally in the balls when the Splits are in charge. As Tolkien says, "Evil Is" And it is true that some people are more evil that others. And it is this you must really judge. Only when you have absorbed and healed all your split personalities into the central soul personality.
When there is only One! Can we trust a person. Until then we can trust the unenlightened split personalities of all evolutionary levels to break all their promises. We can trust no-one without a lot of penalties. We can trust no-one who is not enlightened! This is the Law of the Christ. History for thousands of years proves this.
Forgive and Forget. Turn the other Cheek. It is only your Selfish Competitive Ego which gets Hurt because you Selfishly Want. Because you unskillfully trusted a person who always changes their mind. And as the many split personalities take charge, one by one, this is exactly what happens. People change their minds.
Thus you can not trust. Love them anyway. You just don't have to be with them. It needs an Ancient Advanced Synthesis of Effective Techniques for Gaining More Energy - Meditation, Shaktipat, Energy Circulation, The Kundalini Kriyas, The Five Elemental Paths Of The Chi Of Chinese Alchemical Taoism, The Grounding Of Negative Energies, V.I.
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